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RE: Community Thread 2: Adam's Back! And Debbie Gets Naked - Adam - 08-31-2013

Start, i'd say if you're able to go see someone you probly should, personally for me therapists don't really help but if it works for you then go for it. As for meds, maybe try some homeopathic stuff? If it helps it usually doesn't have side affects or anything

And if you ever just wanna talk about it, we're all ears


RE: Community Thread 2: Adam's Back! And Debbie Gets Naked - JCizzle - 08-31-2013

I also think seeing someone couldn't hurt, although as Adam says, we're all ears. Well, eyes. Whatever.

I just came back from a party where almost all the first-years and a few second- and third-years in music hung out. 'Twas amusing despite my disdain for drunkenness and intoxication, although to be truly honest only one person was visibly drunk and a couple others were high. I do know there's another guy (other than my friend) who also doesn't abuse drugs too, so that's cool.

All the first-years (except for me and a friend) had the names of the instruments they are studying in written on their foreheads.

I had "Kazoo" (albeit in French: "Gazou") written on mine, lol. One of my friends had "Jew's Harp" subsequently written on his, inspired by my silly choice.


RE: Community Thread 2: Adam's Back! And Debbie Gets Naked - Adam - 08-31-2013

Wait, since when do you study music in college (or whatever it is)? Last i remembered you were into programming

Or did i just never pay attention? lol


RE: Community Thread 2: Adam's Back! And Debbie Gets Naked - stratman_13 - 08-31-2013

I'm spoilering because I don't need to drag down the vibe.

I have no idea if therapists would work. I've never actually been to one. I'm not a person that's ever comfortable relying on others or talking about my issues because I always feel like I'll be putting a burden on other people. And I mean everyone's going through shit, I don't know why mine should be more important than theirs. I'd rather people come to me and talk about their problems because then maybe I can help them and for me that's all I really want to do, and that's one of the things that makes me happiest.

Which is good and bad, the bad showing through here, because I've almost become mentally unable to seek assistance. When I was going through my other shit I didn't want to see anyone because I felt like that would just destroy me, that my life had gotten so out of hand that I need someone else to come in and clean up my mess, or at least help me to clean up my mess.

Honestly I should probably just start smoking again :haha:.

Cigarettes are nice, but sometimes....


RE: Community Thread 2: Adam's Back! And Debbie Gets Naked - JCizzle - 08-31-2013

@Adam: Oh yeah, you wouldn't have been aware considering your hiatus of MTB. I finally got into music! So I'm no longer studying in computer science.

@Strat: I know what you mean. I sometimes wonder if my problems are really worth talking to others about (although I tend to vent a lot) in comparison to some other people's problems, and I also wonder if I'm a burden. My idea is that seeing a therapist it couldn't hurt, but ultimately, the choice is yours, and you know yourself better than I do.


RE: Community Thread 2: Adam's Back! And Debbie Gets Naked - crazysam23 - 08-31-2013

(08-31-2013, 06:11 AM)stratman_13 Wrote: I'm spoilering because I don't need to drag down the vibe.

I have no idea if therapists would work. I've never actually been to one. I'm not a person that's ever comfortable relying on others or talking about my issues because I always feel like I'll be putting a burden on other people. And I mean everyone's going through shit, I don't know why mine should be more important than theirs. I'd rather people come to me and talk about their problems because then maybe I can help them and for me that's all I really want to do, and that's one of the things that makes me happiest.
Well, when someone is paid to listen to problems (and help others deal with those problems), I don't think you can say you're putting a burden on them. Confusedhrug:


RE: Community Thread 2: Adam's Back! And Debbie Gets Naked - Adam - 08-31-2013

(08-31-2013, 06:11 AM)stratman_13 Wrote: I'm spoilering because I don't need to drag down the vibe.

I have no idea if therapists would work. I've never actually been to one. I'm not a person that's ever comfortable relying on others or talking about my issues because I always feel like I'll be putting a burden on other people. And I mean everyone's going through shit, I don't know why mine should be more important than theirs. I'd rather people come to me and talk about their problems because then maybe I can help them and for me that's all I really want to do, and that's one of the things that makes me happiest.

Which is good and bad, the bad showing through here, because I've almost become mentally unable to seek assistance. When I was going through my other shit I didn't want to see anyone because I felt like that would just destroy me, that my life had gotten so out of hand that I need someone else to come in and clean up my mess, or at least help me to clean up my mess.

Honestly I should probably just start smoking again :haha:.

Cigarettes are nice, but sometimes....

:rape: (it's meant as a hug)

Dude i totally get where you're coming from, i'm the same way. I tend to not talk about my problems because it makes me feel like i'm making others depressed/being a burden on their conscience because they can't really help

Therapists are paid to it though, so that's not my problem with them, and it shouldn't be for you too, but i just don't like them because.. eh... lets put it this way - therapists are like anal sex; if it was forced upon you as a child it wouldn't be very fun for you as an adult, now would it? Tongue


RE: Community Thread 2: Adam's Back! And Debbie Gets Naked - stratman_13 - 08-31-2013

I really am thinking about it. We'll see how things play out though.

I know Sam, but it's just how I am :haha:. My friends tell me that all the time (or at least the ones that know what's going on) but it's just this.. almost a block I guess you could say. It's exactly what Joel said, I just never feel like they're important enough.

I dunno. I might, I might not, but I'm strongly leaning towards the "might"

Oh and guys for real though feel free to call me Jesse


RE: Community Thread 2: Adam's Back! And Debbie Gets Naked - wwf - 08-31-2013

i think i actually am going to stop posting everywhere but here for a while though

everywhere else gets kinda tedious


RE: Community Thread 2: Adam's Back! And Debbie Gets Naked - stratman_13 - 08-31-2013

only reason I still go there is for the dudes in the FiM thread and the gaming thread.

Everywhere else can fuck off

But this place = best place, really.